Religion Information

Ministry Of Absence


I was meditating the other day and contemplating the thousands of folks in the cemeteries who lived and died without making any impression upon anybody. No one hated them and no one loved them. They are not missed because no one ever knew they existed. They touched no one's life in any memorable way. How sad.

There is such a wondrous power in the gift of human kindness. New life emerges in hearts longing for tenderness, compassion and understanding. When you reach out and lovingly touch someone, you infuse something priceless of yourself into the very soul and essence of another. When we touch others in empathetic, kind, gentle ways, we may be incognizant of the lasting impressions we are imprinting upon their mind screen with each word, hug, or glance. Yet, the power of your kindness will be warmly remembered long after you have departed the scene. There is something subtle, magnetic, redemptive that mysteriously transmit to others in a positive, healthy and permanent way. It is the ministry of absence; the most lasting and meaningful kind of ministry. The influence you make on the lives you touch continues to minister even when you are no longer physically present.

And, let me hasten to add that it does not have a lot to do with what you say. It has even less to do with what you do. But it is who you are when you are not saying anything or doing anything. It is who you are when no one is looking or listening. It is who you are as you go about the business of just living. No artificial device of the will of man, no trick, no ingenuity can produce a healing influence from a dissolute life. But for the life wrapped in the garment of love and human compassion, it is a certain atmosphere you generate and carry with you which somehow registers its impression upon other lives. During special moments of remembrance and intervals of recollection, you will miraculously reappear in the lives of those you have touched, even though you are absent.

It is the silent, holy, and powerful contagion of a Christian's life. You are present even when you are absent.

My Prayer
Holy God, may I never be too busy, too occupied, and too selfish with my time, to reach out in love to my fellow man. Grant gracious Lord, that the influence of your Holy Spirit be reflected through my life in such a way that it registers a positive, holy, and lasting impression upon the lives of others. Enable me to live so great a faith life that others may be drawn to you. In the blessed name of Jesus Christ, who with you and the Holy Spirit reigns forever, I pray. Amen.

Rev. Saundra L. Washington, D.D., is an ordained clergywoman, social worker, and Founder of AMEN Ministries. http://www.clergyservices4u.org She is also the author of two coffee table books: Room Beneath the Snow: Poems that Preach and Negative Disturbances: Homilies that Teach. Her new book, Out of Deep Waters: A Grief Healing Workbook, will be available soon.


MORE RESOURCES:

MiamiHerald.com

Contraception mandate outrages religious groups
The Seattle Times
Religious groups that oppose the new contraception mandate say it forces people of faith to choose between upholding church doctrine and serving the broader society. By RACHEL ZOLL The Associated Press This dispute will have to resolved at the US ...
Editorial | Health and religionLouisville Courier-Journal
Freedom of religion ignored in federal health plan mandatesThe Turlock Journal
Contraception Provision Sets Off FirestormNPR

all 577 news articles »


USA TODAY

Muslims to NY attorney general: Investigate NYPD
Wall Street Journal
"Just the fact of knowing there is someone out there trying to listen to my conversations that can turn me into some kind of criminal, which I'm not, and exploiting my religion, it hurts," said Sondos Alsilwi, an 18-year-old history major at City ...
NYPD targeted ShiitesAlbany Times Union

all 773 news articles »


Kansas City Star

Politics & religion: Does Mormon affiliation matter?
Jackson Clarion Ledger
As a Mormon, Romney has brought religion to the forefront in much the same way John F. Kennedy did as a Catholic. / Joe Raedle/Getty Images The Pew Forum on Religion & Public life recently released a survey examining Mormons in America.
Romney's tithing is common among Mormons, but giving is at a low for other ...NewsOK.com
Mormon Numbers Not Adding UpReligion Dispatches
Will Mormons' racial history be a problem for Mitt Romney?USA TODAY
Post-Bulletin -Deseret News -Media Research Center
all 177 news articles »


Va. House approves bill allowing private adoption agencies to discriminate ...
Washington Post
Legislation that would allow private adoption agencies to deny placements that conflict with their religious or moral beliefs, including opposition to homosexuality, sailed through the Virginia House of Delegates without debate Friday.

and more »


Gingrich raps New York's Bloomberg on religion issue
Chicago Tribune
LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Republican presidential candidate Newt Gingrich inserted himself into the long-running controversy about whether religious groups should be allowed to hold services in New York City public schools, and accused Mayor Michael ...

and more »


Palm Beach Post (blog)

Is Obama pandering on religion?
Palm Beach Post (blog)
by Opinion Staff Speaking at the National Prayer Breakfast on Thursday, President Obama said his governmental policies were, in many cases, the result of his religious faith. President Obama, with First Lady Michelle Obama, acknowledges applause after ...
Blending politics and religion, Obama says his policies are an extension of ...Washington Post
Obama: Policies are extension of my faithCBS News
Obama says his policies are extension of his faithBoston.com
msnbc.com -Reuters
all 731 news articles »


Boston Globe

Economy, religion sure to play big role in Nev. caucus
KSL-TV
"In some cases you could say (his religion is) a built-in network for him already. Those who have known him for a while want to support him," said Dave Stevenson, also a Romney supporter. Meanwhile, Ron Paul is also looking to attract LDS voters.
Paul seeks to attract Mormon voters in Nevada GOP contestBoston Globe
Mainline Protestants up for grabs heading into NovemberThe Christian Century
Ron Paul seeks to attract Mormon voters in Nevada GOP contestSalt Lake Tribune
Washington Post (blog) -IBNLive.com -Deseret News
all 3,582 news articles »


Religion Bulletin; Feb. 4
BlueRidgeNow.com
Sponsored by United Religions Initiative of Henderson County. Brothers' Sake will be guest singers at the First Sunday Night Singing at 6 pm Sunday at In Jesus Name Church, 2934 Sugarloaf Mountain Road, Hendersonville. Info: 828-685-3313.

and more »


Religion Today: Feb. 4
Journal Times
Religion Today is a listing of special events held at Racine County churches and is published every Saturday in Faith & Community. Notices of regularly scheduled services and sermon topics are not used. Announcements must arrive by noon Wednesday to be ...

and more »


Does religion have political power?
NewsOK.com
29), John Loghry was quoted as saying, “When religion gets political power, we suddenly face discrimination, we lose opportunities to thrive unless we are willing to pretend that we agree with the official religion; we find our children's thinking ...

and more »

Google News

home | site map
© 2006